Jada revealed she learned how to sexually satisfy herself thanks to her grandmother Marion Martin Banfield, a social worker who was determined to ensure that Jada didn’t “fall into the hands of a man”.

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“She didn’t want me to fall into the hands of a man, and if he gave me pleasure, to think that, that was him. And she taught me at nine!”

And Jada was happy to share intimate details of her sex life with her daughter, admitting to Willow that she was giving herself multiple orgasms by the age of 17.

Jada confessed: “I think by your age, I gave myself multiples first. Multiple orgasms. I was really into it at one point. Just because I was in an exploration state and I was abstaining from men.

In fact, Jada reached a point at which she’d basically become addicted to masturbation before she ultimately tired of the experience.

“I actually think I went through kind of an addiction, too, with it. And then one day, I was like, ‘Enough. You’re having five orgasms a day.’”

Jada’s grandmother wanted to learn to satisfy herself and not depend on a man for pleasure. She wanted Jada to feel empowered in self pleasure. She wanted her to be responsible for her own sexual gratification. Her grandmother felt it was important for the then 9 year old Jada to understand that pleasure came from her, not a man

Will Smith said:

“Jada never believed in conventional marriage … Jada had family members that had an unconventional relationship,” Will revealed. “So she grew up in a way that was very different than how I grew up.”

I now fully understand Jada Pinkett. She will never be ‘sexually satisfied’ by one partner. She’s had an unusually early start in self pleasure (masturbation), beginning at the ripe age of nine (still a child). Jada is highly experienced in ‘pleasuring self’, making it challenging for others to really bring her to the higher stages of orgasms. She goes after what she wants sexually outside of her marriage).

Let me tell you, I have had some pretty explosively dangerous orgams, and these things are scary (laughed). Finding a partner that can match these ‘incredibly insane orgasms’ is not a snap of a finger

I understand why she did not want to be ‘married’. A convential marriage would ‘cripple’ her freedom, which is why she can only exist in an open marriage (unconventional marriage)

Will Smith will always feel ’emasculated’ for this entire matter. In this marriage, he will never feel ‘powerful’ as a man because he is unable, and may never be able to sexually satisfy his wife

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